When a child is born with a diagnosis of retinoblastoma or is faced
with any other serious visual problem, parents are never prepared
to deal with the frightening reality. Dreams are shattered and families
are in crisis as they "mourn" for the healthy baby they
expected. The knowledge that their child has a life-threatening
disease that may result in visual impairment and possibly death
(although rare), quickly and dramatically changes initial feelings
of joy and happiness at birth of a baby to those of shock, grief,
anger, despair, and anxiety about the future. Many parents describe
feeling as though they are on an emotional roller coaster, hopeful
one moment and desperate the next. As one parent so beautifully
said, "What I thought would be the happiest time in my life
turned out to be the saddest."
Since 1987, the INSTITUTE FOR FAMILIES has offered counseling
and support to families facing the devastating diagnosis of visual
impairment in their child. The Institute for Families is there for
every member of the family during the many difficult days, weeks,
and months of treatment.